When York's mother was here she said that when York was a baby he didn't like to be held much. I totally dismissed this as impossible, she must have misread the situation, all babies love to be held. Or so I thought until I met Archer. Archer appears to enjoy not being held. Sometimes after I've changed his diaper and he's just staring up at his mobile I'll pick him up to move him out of the bathroom and he will cry. Sometimes I'll pick him up out of his bouncy seat/swing/car seat and he will cry. I am shocked.