at my work party the other night, wiley walked right up to my boss, Tim. I didn't point Tim out or remind him of Tim's name. I sat back. Wiley introduced himself and then told Tim this story: "The other day when I was home with my dad, he found two ticks on my penis and pulled them off." Tim was kind, as social workers are, stifled a giggle and told Wiley that really is unpleasant.