we're struggling a little with wiley's behavior again/still. mostly we're worried about him feeling left out or jealous. he's gone back to wanting cuddle boobie time. he says things like, 'can we all cooperate and share archer.' or, 'sometimes i cry when you leave me' and insists on going with us even if we're just running upstairs/downstairs to get something. or out of nowhere he'll just say, 'i'm sorry for....' something he may have been corrected for or something he doesn't even have to say sorry for. he's just thinking all the time and i worry sometimes the thinking might take him to sad places. and he just looks sad sometimes. i spend as much one on one time with him as possible whenever archer's asleep, but i think sometimes i will have to choose time with wiley even when archer is awake. we'll see if that helps.
i took him out of story time today at the library. we entered, he hit a kid. we talked about it. we went to sit down and he body slammed a kid--the kid's caretaker yelled at wiley- 'no, no, no!'. i walked wiley over to apologize (the caretaker, grandma i think, says, 'tell him you'll accept his apology this one time...I was pissed, what is that?!). i talk to wiley again about his behavior. he body slams again. he starts spitting on kids. we left.